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Tuesday, September 21, 2010

In search of fulfillment and happiness

People take different roads seeking fulfillment and happiness. Just because they're not on your road doesn't mean they've gotten lost. ~H. Jackson Browne
My road to fulfillment and happiness.
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Brilliant quote. Totally feeling it right now, too. A lot of things have been going in my favor regarding a job search that will lead me back to "La Terra della mia VIta"--the Land of my Life--as I have begun calling Italy. 

#1 My friend gave me his Rosetta Stone Italian levels 1 through 5. He is the best, and I have already paid him with drinks and copious numbers of hugs and verbal thanks. Fluency in Italian would be a huge plus if I plan on moving there. 

#2 With the help of Alessandro as my advocate and my initiative to show my usefulness and worth, I am trying to be part of the Florence Program 2011. With luck, Dr. B (the program director) will find me useful enough to include as part of the staff this coming summer. 

#3 Along those lines, I have located two positions that would give me two months off--the flexibility I need to travel there as an assistant for the study abroad. 

#4 My friend was hired as a writer in Florence. I am going to see if he can get me an 'in' over there as well. Ideal!

#5 Almost all of my friends have faith I will succeed. That has to count for something. 

Even with all this positivity, if you know of any connection that can help me make it back to Italy, I would love your help. So send a message my way if you hear of anything! (And I have to say, you reading this is already a huge help to me, since it gives me proof of readership!)

Reunion

I drove to Cincinnati to meet my Italian for lunch last Wednesday, 18 hours after he landed. Panera Bread was a wise choice, since Alessandro is a health-conscious workout fiend. Seeing him through the glass of the restaurant, I jumped up in excitement as tears threatened to pour forth. He was wearing jeans and a white button-down shirt ("There is too much air conditioning here!" he said to me with a shrug.), looking just as I remembered. The only thing missing? Danny stuffed in his suitcase! 


On one hand, it felt like I had seen Alessandro the day before when I climbed into my cab on Via dei Serragli in the early hours of August 15. On the other hand, it felt like years since we'd met face to face. Amy, his Cincinnati hostess, came as well. It was a welcome reunion after weekends by myself in Oxford longing for the camaraderie of my 'amiche americane' and 'amico italiano' from the trip. 


What a week. Since his arrival, Alessandro has inspired a lot of gatherings and parties--house parties, bar meet-and-greets, dinners, dancing, and late night chats. It has been a blast. Take Saturday night for example:


I picked up Katie McC and went to Jason's house where Alessandro is living for his time in Oxford (he has his own bedroom and bathroom without rent). After stopping in at the Clinton's house to see Colleen and Connor and Kelsey N., We headed Uptown to Skipper's to meet Meghan, Karen, Lauren, Jen, Jenna, and Alyssa. Christina and Erich were working the bar, so a good 10% of the group was in one building. Not bad. We ended up going to Brickstreet so he could experience an American-style dance club and ran into Scott R. and Claire C. on the dancefloor. Pretty good for one night out on the town.  


In fact, he's had so much fun, he may not go to Chicago this coming weekend. I hope he sticks around. I'm enjoying his company very much. At the same time, I have a ton of work to do. Being responsible is so over rated sometimes...

Saturday, September 18, 2010

Dear Armani: Thank you.

Dear Armani--

Thank you.

Love, 
Kaitlin

This photo was not taken by me. Unfortunately.
Copyright most likely belongs to  Armani.

Tuesday, September 14, 2010

Through New Eyes

Monday I was driving into Cincinnati along the two lane country road that is the only access point between middle-of-nowhere Oxford, Ohio and the Big City. I was singing to John Mayer and relaxing when a flash of yellow caught my eye. Sunflowers. A field of sunflowers. Just then, the sun came out from behind the clouds, and thousands of dew drops lit up the world, becoming a coat of diamonds. The field of golden flowers glittered, shining with its own light. And for a moment, I thought I was back on the train to Naples. I came back to reality as the field passed into my rearview mirror. The fleeting moment to Italy had passed. 
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In six hours, my friend Alessandro will be touching town onto American soil for the first time. He will be experiencing this place with fresh eyes, getting to know the people, the cities, the culture just as I learned about his. 


As I reflected on this walking across Miami University's campus this morning, I tried to look at it like I used to as a first year student.  I fell in love with this school five years ago, and, like a lot of things, time and familiarity had dulled the passion. The majestic oak trees with leaves on the verge of losing that summer green. Georgian style buildings of uniform height, harkening back to the university's 1809 roots. The remainders of the night's fog burning off in the early sunshine. It is all still there. It is all still lovely. I just haven't been looking. 


With Alessandro here, I am hoping I will rediscover what I love about living in the United States. Ever since coming 'home' from Italy, I've felt a little lost, a little depressed, and a little discontent with my current place in life. Maybe his 'child in a toy store' attitude will help me see the beautiful things again.

Wednesday, September 8, 2010

Stick around, and I'll tell you (really, I promise)

Before I delve into the real topic of this post, a quick aside:


Was very tempted to get a kitten today. Then I realized I could buy two pairs of high heels for the cost of adoption, and not have to feed them.

I bought the heels. And 100 prints of my favorite Italy pictures.




Now then, onto the real topic...


As of Monday, I have embarked on the arduous task of remembering and chronicling every detail of my three trips to Cinque Terre. From the mojitos down to the color of the sunsets. And let's not forget Ivo's strawberry plant with its two flowers. Or the potted aloe. 


By December 1st I will have created a narrative nonfiction journalistic tribute to the unique lifestyle of the people of Cinque Terre. They deal with crazy tourists tramping through their home virtually every day April through September, and yet they manage to respect nature and maintain their community values in the wake of great change. 


It's a huge undertaking, and I can tell you sorting the notes is a daunting task already. So many irrelevant scribbles in Moleskine notebooks and on journalist pads (often written on Bar Centrale's patio with an espresso, as pictured), but added together the sentence fragments paint an amazing picture. I've caught myself reminiscing more than writing recently--not good for finishing, but very good for procrastinating. 


Here's a taste from my notecards:



 Bar Centrale looks and feels like a dive bar. A handmade sign stating “Order a Mojito… and NO we don’t have cigs so STOP ASKING,” makes me confident Lauren and I are about to experience something (good or bad, who knew).
A man with a goatee and “I chose to be” bald head expertly flips glasses and mixes cocktails. He is wearing a boyishly inappropriate shirt that borrows the brand name Hello Kitty and turns it into Hello [insert female body part that rhymes with Kitty]. Even with that, he exudes authority, and there is no doubt he is the man in charge. 


Ciao, mia amore,” the goateed bartender says to a little girl. She is probably three years old, and clings desperately to her father’s neck as the bartender extends his hand over the bar to give her the change from an order.
“Che le dice?,” her father says to her. “Che le dice?”
“Grazie,” the little girl says, brown eyes never leaving her father as she reaches out for the money.
The bartender smiles and places the Euros into her chubby little hand. As soon as they turn to leave, he is mixing up something in a martini shaker, pouring it briskly into a tall glass, and heading out the door of Bar Centrale to deliver it to the patio, even as he shouts over his shoulder, “Hey, Aussie! I haven’t forgotten you,” which gets him a nod and grin from a young guy.
Lauren looks over at me with a puzzled expression.
“Yeah, he definitely sounds almost American,” I say in response.
The bartender’s fluent American-style English and Italian had me curious, as did the self-ingratiating sign about the mojitos, so I approached the bar with a friendly conversation opener in mind. After helping the Aussie as promised, he turns to Lauren and me.
“I’ll have a mojito, per favore,” I said, followed by, “What made you come and stay in Riomaggiore?”
He glances at me, looking me up and down slowly.
“Just because I speak English better than an American doesn’t mean I’m not local,” he says bluntly, with a hint of humor. But not much. “Sucks when an Italian can talk better than you, eh? I was born here in Riomaggiore.”
“What’s your name?” I asked, enjoying the banter. I watch him mull the fresh mint leaves with raw sugar crystals inside a glass.
“Stick around and I’ll tell you,” he says.



That's all for now, but stick around, and I'll tell you more. : )

Sunday, September 5, 2010

Never knew I could feel like this: Global readership is stroking my blogging ego

This is a shout out to those who have so kindly chosen to come visit this blog, even to those who mistakenly got here (though, they may have left and will never come back...).


I have started another blog called '^3' on Wordpress for a digital technology class. Today I wrote quite a lovely post about synergy and the readership of this blog, and how shocked and awed I was by the information I discovered. 



So, please, feel free to go forth and find out whose company you are in when you read 'La Vita al Sole'--it's pretty incredible. 

Saturday, September 4, 2010

"Dear America" and other great exchanges I've had recently


September 4


(To Alessandro) 

YOU are coming to Oxford so soon I can hardly stand it. I am SO excited. Just thought I should let you know that I miss you more than I miss gelato. And as you know, that is a whole lot. :P

[This began a 12-comment dialogue between us and Amy about his visit and when I will be taking him to go eat KFC 'from the source' as he says.]

September 2


Dear America, 


Karen ZimmermannEliza Cassidy and I are in agreement that the Italian tradition of 'siesta' between 1 and 3 is a superb idea. And that life here, well, is just a little too fast-paced for our liking. Karen is considering relocating to Italy to become a gelato-hoarding gypsy. I'm not to that point yet, but it shouldn't be long. So take a chill pill and give me my nap time. 


Love, Kaitlin and Company.


September 1


Currently suffering from insomnia courtesy of my espresso pot. I filled it for tomorrow and the scent caught me. I couldn't resist...



A dream as real as life.



My skin is warm from the sun. Heated air is saturated with the smell of wine and stone. It is evening, and the sky is that perfect pale blue with a light pink tinge. The sunglasses I bought in Rome make the world sepia toned as I walk across the piazza. 


He is supposed to be here--this is our place. Santa Maria Novella shimmers under the sun's rays and couples sit in the grass or on the out-of-place modern benches. The moment seems fleeting to me, and I don't understand why. I am here, in the land of my life; my home. 


I see him walk into view, fresh off the train, the Ray Ban aviators he's so fond of framing his face. I can't help but smile and start moving toward him. Even as I do, my vision blurs the picture. The piazza starts to fade--he starts to fade. I run. I have to reach him. I can see the faint hint of a five o'clock shadow along his jaw line, I am so close. 


And then, it is gone, he is gone, and all I see is the pale green of my quilted comforter. 


These nightly visits to Italy are common for me. Sometimes I am back in Cinque Terre, sipping on Ivo's fresh mojitos in Bar Centrale. Other times, I am looking down on Florence's lights from Fiesole, with shooting stars flying overhead at irregular intervals. 


Not much longer until Italy comes to me, thank goodness. My dear friend Alessandro will be arriving to Cincinnati September 14. I am 1st Entertainer and Amy is 1st Secretary.